Beyond the Seat at the Table: Using Your Voice to Shape Leadership
Getting a seat at the leadership table is an achievement. Knowing how to use that seat—and making sure others are heard—is another kind of responsibility. In this episode of the Executive Alliance Podcast, host Rebecca Snyder speaks with Tamla Olivier, president and CEO of Baltimore Gas and Electric (BGE), about self-advocacy, the pressure to prove oneself, and the choices leaders make to create more inclusive organizations. Her experiences offer a candid look at what it takes not simply to advance, but to influence the room once there.
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Hard Work Is Necessary—but Not Sufficient
Early in her career at T. Rowe Price, Olivier expected that strong performance would speak for itself. When a leadership position opened, she waited to be approached. Instead, the opportunity was offered first to a peer. Although Olivier ultimately received the role after that person declined it, the experience changed her understanding of career development.
She had been taught to work hard, build relationships, and deliver results. Those habits mattered, but they did not communicate her aspirations. Olivier now emphasizes telling decision-makers what role one wants, explaining why one is ready, and asking what additional experience would strengthen a future candidacy. Self-advocacy, in her telling, is not a substitute for performance; it is how capable people help others see where they want to go.
Finding a Leadership Style That Fits
Olivier spent more than 25 years in human resources before moving into broader business leadership. She describes HR as both strategic and deeply human: employees bring different experiences, pressures, and strengths to work, and leaders cannot expect everyone to respond to the same approach.
That perspective also shaped her own development. Earlier in her career, she often modeled herself on the predominantly male leaders around her. Over time, she learned to bring her own approach while remaining open to feedback. One colleague pointed out that her facial expressions could discourage participation during meetings. Rather than abandon her directness, she asked a peer to help her recognize the behavior and practiced listening and asking more questions.
Importantly, Olivier distinguishes useful feedback from unequal expectations. She also recalls being told to calm down for expressing views with a passion that was accepted from male colleagues. Effective leadership, she suggests, requires both personal reflection and a willingness to recognize double standards.
The Burden of Having to Prove You Belong
Olivier speaks frankly about the added pressure she experiences as a Black woman in executive leadership. Even after earning the CEO role, she feels responsible for demonstrating every day to employees, customers, regulators, and other stakeholders that she deserves the position.
She recalls a colleague suggesting that an earlier move from HR into business operations was viewed by some as a diversity rotation. Her response was to ask what he had said when others made that claim. The silence was revealing. The experience reinforced a difficult lesson: even people regarded as allies may fail to challenge assumptions about who has earned an opportunity.
Making the Table Work for Everyone
For Olivier, inclusion is more than an invitation to attend. She remembers meetings where junior men confidently occupied seats at the main table while accomplished women sat along the edges. She encouraged one talented colleague to move into the discussion, then challenged her assumption that she needed permission to belong there.
Olivier also pays attention to whose contributions are overlooked. When someone struggles to enter a conversation, she invites that person to speak; when a useful idea is dismissed, she names its value. One employee later told her it was the first time in 17 years that anyone had affirmed her contribution in a meeting. The moment underscored how much influence leaders exercise through seemingly small choices.
Her experience on corporate boards reinforces the same theme. Olivier describes evaluating whether Century Aluminum was genuinely interested in evolving its leadership and governance, rather than judging the opportunity solely by its existing composition. She values boards whose members contribute different perspectives and actively support the organization.
The message is both individual and institutional: women need to articulate their ambitions and claim their place, while leaders must examine who is heard, sponsored, and considered for opportunity. A seat matters most when it comes with a voice—and when its occupant helps open the conversation to others.
About the Guest
Tamla Olivier is president and chief executive officer of Baltimore Gas and Electric, a role she assumed in 2025. Her career includes more than 25 years in human resources and senior leadership positions at BGE, Constellation, BGE Home, and Pepco. She also serves on corporate boards, including Century Aluminum. Her leadership experience spans talent development, business operations, organizational strategy, and governance.
This blog post was written with the assistance of AI.
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